Thursday, September 2, 2010

5 Facebook Dating Dos and Don’ts

Facebook is a great way to meet women. It can also destroy any chance you might have had with that certain woman.

That’s why there are must follow rules you need to abide by to make sure you dont sabotaging your relationships before they ever even get off the ground. For example, if your romantic signature involves "Mafia Wars", you are not getting anywhere, except maybe with a "gangsta" chick.

Recognize the dos and don’ts of Facebook dating, however, and you’ll experience fewer headaches, heartaches and humiliations.

1. Don't friend her too soon

There are plenty of creepy dudes perusing Facebook pictures and sending friend requests to hot girls. Don’t be one of them .If you send a friend request before you’ve had a conversation or introduction, she will be weirded out. If your date is a set-up, don’t friend her before you meet. And if you met her when you were out one night, make sure she actually gave you her last name before you send a friend request. A good rule of thumb: If you have her phone number, you can be her Facebook friend.

2. Don't make a nuisance of yourself

If she isn’t responding to your private message, instant message —never IM someone you haven’t contacted before — or wall comment, don’t keep bugging her. Let her respond to you.

3. Be real

Just because you discovered she’s into indie rock and foreign films by scouring her Info page doesn’t mean you should pretend to be into the same stuff or be the first one to bring them up—it’s better to let her tell you about her interests organically.

4. Assume that everyone she knows is on Facebook

We mean everyone–her grandmother, her niece, her boss. This means you can’t write something inappropriate on her wall or tag her in an incriminating picture. If you embarrass her in front of important people, you can kiss your chances with her goodbye.

5. Take it offline

Facebook can be a great way to flirt or to make some awkward beginning stages of a relationship slightly less so. But use it sparingly; if you interact too much electronically in the beginning, it becomes more difficult to establish your in-person relationship.

There you have it, the skinny on Facebook dating, one of the best places to meet women online.

Sorry, I don't have a Facebook guide or ebook for you, but I do have lots of completely free ebooks, including, "Twiduction; How to Meet Women on Twitter", along with lots more free online dating ebooks, adult ebooks and classic erotica ebooks available without sign-up, sign-in or any other obligations whatsoever, from my main website, AssEtEbooks.com.

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